Every creation is unique on the planet. And we as humans are unique because of our intellect. Then as a person everyone is unique because of our physical appearances and our behavior patterns. Being Multidimensional and evolving with changing time are few of aspects which makes people unique.
As I started my career with IT it has not changed anything as such. Since then I have varied experiences in other field. It has enhanced my work, with faster communication and wider reach. I can say that it has not affected me adversely.
Balance has to be there to take advantage of the Tech. in the todays world.
I had an experience today which I would like to share here. The way we communicate has slowly and steadly changed, atleast in last decade. It is more on messaging apps and mails then on personal level. Earlier we could judge by the tone of the person on the othet side of phone, how the things are or what type of person we are dealing with. But with the messaging become the standard norm, it may be difficult now. Especially when you are going to connect with a person first time
Today I realized that slowly our mind may have adopted to this shift. I got a WhatsApp message from someone a couple of days back wanting to talk. I agreed. Today again got message. While reading it , I got an impression of being ordered. It was more of what was missing rather than what was there. I decided not to go further. Then someone else messaged from the same place wanting the same info. I fixed up the time for the meeting, despite thinking of saying no earlier.
What changed my mind ? The formation of the message. One was bland and the othet was warm and respectful. Without our knowledge, our thought process changed how we decide things.
Moral of the story : Be mindful while communicating through messaging, especially for the first time. Remember “First impression is the last impression ” Most of the time.
What’s a secret skill or ability you have or wish you had?
My favorite music is listening to Jagjit Singh’s s Gazals. He is one of the best in his Art. I always listen to him on my walks. I wish I had a atleast a normal vocal voice, just to sing along.
Today ‘s weather here. It is my favorite. The best to go for long walks, feel the fresh Air, music of the waves. Being one with the nature, it brings the fresh energy within . 🙏🏻
All the teachers play a big role in our developing years. There have been many who influenced me. But one I remember still is my hindi teacher in grade 8 in school. Her name was Mrs. Sethi. She was an excellent person and I respect her. But the reason I remember her is that she changed my name. My nickname was Dolly and that was registered in school also. While sending the names to high school (9th grade) she changed it to Namrata. She did not ask my mom or me, those were the days of good old friendship types.
Afterwards she told us that Dolly is a very casual kind of name and doesn’t look good on the formal documents. She was right I think. This reminds me of the times when family and friends were genuinely concerned for you.
TODAY- you misspell your own child’s name and imagine…….. Changing name shouldn’ even cross your mind
I do believe in cleansing, as sometimes misplaced energies do effect us negatively. If something is reoccurring, which I am not comfortable with, then I do reflect on .