“As I See Her”

This book is about relationships. How some stand strongly with you in the adverse time ,others just disappear.

Todays post is dedicated to Sarla on her Birthday. Nirmal’s elder sister-in-law ( eldest brother’s wife), Sarla stood by her in her good and bad times. The mutual respect they had for each other laid the foundation of their strong bond. Thank you Aunty for being there not just for her but us (her children) always.

Would you like to know more…..please do read the book. It is going to be available very shortly on ebook platforms and in print

Copyright (c) 2022 Namrata D Prabhakar

Anger- A Pollutant

Lately I have been thinking a lot on the LOVE Affections,respect, positive thoughts etc. and at the same time anger, hate ,abuse and other negative behaviors.

Are there any institutions or places where anger, hate or abusive language is taught??? To best of my knowledge NO. Then the question is “From where people learned”?? The likely answer is it is inherent. And also from the environment in which a person grows. Or hordes of other reasons and excuses to hurt one’s relations and the society at large.

My question is -if anger was not taught, and a person choose to be anger then why love has to be taught? Why a person can not express love and generosity towards others naturally?

The funniest part is the wrongdoer justified his/her behaviour by puting blame on others. There is no excuse for shouting or loosing one’s temper no matter what the situation is. “I am right” attitude is the output of inflated EGO and nothing else. It is not obligatory to agree on everything, but there are much better and nicer ways to convey one’s thoughts or view.

We talk about so many types of Pollution which is threatening our planet and generation to come. What about the Pollution caused by anger, violence, abuse,disrespect,hate etc caused by insensitive beings.

In today’s world, one of the biggest exploition of society is in the name of teaching Love. Degeneration has come to such s level that centres and institution are mushrooming to show the path of love and harmony, How can Love be taught ? It is omnipresent like other natural elements.

Love or anger both are there with us till our last breath. We only have to choose between the two as expression of our behavior.

Copyright (c) 2022 Namrata D Prabhakar

Contemplating…..

Employment : Full time (24×7)

Work place : HOME

Job description: Just doing whatever necessary to maintain it.

Remuneration : What a silly question 😃

Women who do not earn in monetary terms, especially married ones, got to hear this often *What you do all day just sitting at home “?

Most of the time when they reply ,it leads to frustration and unpleasant emotions.

Letz see what we do sitting at home.

Home is a vehicle, isn’t it ?

Yes, driven by the person in driving seat (mostly husband😃)

Every vehicle needs to be properly aligned and maintained to go long distance and at good speed

Who do that ?

The Mechanic .

He/She works not only on engine but on every smallest parts also to keep the vehicle in running condition.

Will a driver be able to drive without the support of Mechanic ?

Definitely NO

Women who look after their family at home are like mechanics, who maintain their homes ,keeping things in order and working condition.

Imagine a world of automobiles if all Mechanics take a long holiday from their respective jobs……

SCARY isn’t it?

SO PPL RESPECT AND VALUE YOUR SPOUSES, who are just sitting at home.

“House is just a structure

We make it HOME”

Copyright (c) 2020 Namrata D Prabhakar

A day I never celebrated- VALENTINE’S DAY

​. “M” 


                                                     Dedicated to my better half Arun Prabhakar. 

Valentine’s day so much hype around a day, 

Some may be bestowed with too much love, 

While others may feel uncared and not loved, 

For me it is an ordinary day, 

The rain has made it special, 

And my “morning friends” are in a mood to play. 

            When i think of love it is not just for a day, 

             It is not in red roses or chocolates or a ring,

            It is not holding hands or forever vows, 

             These are just gestures which may fade away. 

For me love is to let other be,

To  let other have the freedom of choice,

To let other have a few thoughts of his/her own, 

To let other decide what he/she wants,

To let the other feel partner not a slave or sub-ordinate,

To let the other agree or disagree on the same thought, 

To walk apart but together not in front or behind, 

To live the love day-to-day in countless ways. 

                     I know I can decide matters minor to major,

                    I need no permission but just a communication, 

                    That is the Love which only fortunate may have

                    Yes,  after 17 years of marriage i may not had a Valentine’s day,

                    But Respecting my individual being is most precious gift, 

                   I get  from him  everyday ,

                   And it makes my everyday  -“ A Valentine’s day”

P.S.     Trust is the oxygen &  Giving space to each other is the life-line of a relationship. 

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